A Sanctuary of Hope: The Gentle Barn’s Journey Towards Compassion and Healing

In a world where industrial farming practices often overshadow animal welfare, The Gentle Barn stands as a beacon of hope and compassion

In a world where industrial farming practices often overshadow animal welfare, The Gentle Barn stands as a beacon of hope and compassion for farm animals. Founded by Ellie Laks in 1999, this nonprofit organization, with locations in Santa Clarita, California, Nashville, Tennessee, and St. Louis, Missouri, has dedicated itself to rescuing and rehabilitating abused and neglected animals.

Beyond providing a safe haven, The Gentle Barn also offers educational programs and therapeutic activities, drawing nearly 750,000 visitors annually.

The Genesis of The Gentle Barn

The Gentle Barn was born from Ellie Laks' childhood dream. At the tender age of seven, Ellie envisioned a sanctuary where animals and humans could heal together. Her journey began when she encountered a suffering goat at a petting zoo.

Driven by a deep sense of compassion, she rescued the goat and gradually filled her backyard with animals in need. Realizing her dream had taken root, Ellie formally established The Gentle Barn to rescue animals too old, sick, lame, or scared to be adopted elsewhere.

Today, The Gentle Barn is home to a variety of animals, including horses, cows, pigs, sheep, goats, chickens, turkeys, peacocks, llamas, emus, and dogs. These animals undergo extensive recovery programs and, when possible, are adopted into loving homes. Those who cannot be adopted live out their lives, contributing to the sanctuary's therapeutic programs for humans.

Rescuing Animals from Dire Situations

One of the unique aspects of The Gentle Barn is its partnerships with slaughterhouses, stockyards, and auction houses.

Co-founder Jay Weiner has forged relationships with these facilities, allowing The Gentle Barn to rescue "downed" animals—those too sick or injured to be profitable. Jay's efforts have saved countless animals from dire conditions, including veal crates and slaughterhouses.


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When these animals arrive, they are often in a state of shock, having experienced the worst of humanity. Staff and volunteers work tirelessly to rebuild their trust in humans, a process that can take months or even years.

Some animals, like John Lewis the cow, have particularly poignant stories that illustrate the deep connections animals can form with humans.

The Heartwarming Tale of John Lewis the Cow

John Lewis, a cow rescued from a slaughterhouse, exemplifies the transformative power of love and care. Orphaned and suffering from pneumonia at just a week old, John Lewis was brought in, where he received intensive medical care. To keep him cool during the hot summer, Ellie and Jay brought him into their home, where he lived for the first six months of his life.

John Lewis quickly became part of the family, walking on a leash, playing with toys, and even hiking. His story challenges the common perception of farm animals as mere commodities, highlighting their capacity for affection and connection. John Lewis' story is a testament to The Gentle Barn's mission to break down barriers and show that all animals, regardless of species, deserve love and respect.

Healing Through Animal Therapy

The Gentle Barn offers various therapeutic programs, including cow therapy, horse therapy, and barnyard therapy with smaller animals like pigs and sheep. These programs are designed to help children and adults heal from trauma by connecting with the animals. The process begins with a 30-day quarantine period, during which new arrivals are given medical care and introduced to human contact through reading, meditating, and singing.

Once the quarantine period is over, animals are gradually introduced to others of their kind. The process can be slow, especially for species like horses, pigs, chickens, and goats, who may initially reject newcomers. Cows, however, are notably quick to accept new members into their herd.

The Birth of Cow Hug Therapy

One of the most impactful therapeutic practices at The Gentle Barn is Cow Hug Therapy, inspired by a cow named Buddha. Rescued from a slaughterhouse, Buddha's gentle nature quickly made her a favorite among visitors. One night, Ellie experienced an extraordinary moment of connection when Buddha wrapped her neck around Ellie, offering a comforting embrace. This nightly ritual helped Ellie cope with stress and grief, leading her to realize the therapeutic potential of cow hugs.

Ellie began inviting people from various backgrounds, including probation camps, rehab centers, and domestic violence shelters, to experience Cow Hug Therapy. Buddha's hugs had a profound effect, helping individuals open up emotionally and facilitating their healing process. Over her lifetime, Buddha gave out 300,000 hugs, leaving a lasting legacy of love and healing.

Promoting Plant-Based Eating

The Gentle Barn's mission extends beyond rescuing animals; it also promotes a plant-based diet as a way to reduce animal suffering. Ellie herself became vegan 24 years ago after learning about the dairy and egg industries. Today, plant-based eating is more mainstream, and The Gentle Barn continues to advocate for it as a compassionate and sustainable choice.

Visitors are encouraged to adopt a plant-based diet, which can save approximately 200 animals per year per person. By sharing the stories of their rescued animals and the benefits of plant-based eating, The Gentle Barn aims to create a more ethical and sustainable world.

Overcoming Challenges and Grief

Running an animal sanctuary is not without its challenges. Financial constraints and the emotional toll of losing animals are significant hurdles. Ellie recounts a time early in The Gentle Barn's history when she was overwhelmed by grief, doubting her ability to continue. However, through the support of her community and the lessons learned from the animals, Ellie found the strength to persevere.

Dealing with grief is a central theme in Ellie's upcoming book, "Cow Hug Therapy," which explores the animals' teachings about death, compassion fatigue, and the journey from grief to gratitude. This process has been essential for Ellie and her team in maintaining their commitment to their mission.

How to Support The Gentle Barn

Support for The Gentle Barn comes in many forms. Donations and fundraising efforts are crucial to maintaining the sanctuary and ensuring the well-being of the animals. Additionally, The Gentle Barn encourages people to follow them on social media, visit their locations, and experience the healing power of animal therapy firsthand.

By adopting a plant-based diet, individuals can also make a significant impact, effectively saving animals and promoting a more compassionate lifestyle. The Gentle Barn's message is clear: through love, respect, and understanding, we can create a better world for all beings.

The Gentle Barn is more than just an animal sanctuary; it is a place of healing and transformation for both animals and humans. Ellie Laks and her team have created a model of compassion that challenges societal norms and demonstrates the profound connections that can exist between species. Through their rescue efforts, therapeutic programs, and advocacy for plant-based eating, The Gentle Barn continues to inspire and promote a more ethical and sustainable world.

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Rebecca Shavit is a Good News, Psychology, Behavioral Science, and Celebrities reporter